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Boyfriends.. Love them or hate them, but you cannot ignore them. So who does not want their boyfriend to be this understanding, loving and 'obedient' guy? But does that happen? Guys with their volatile temperament rarely display the attributes we have mentioned before and when it comes to giving time, oh my God, Don't even ask! When the relationship is new they are all so attentive and caring. But then they say that familiarity breeds contempt and as the relationship moves ahead with time, you may very well find your boyfriend giving you less time and even worse, staring at other babes.

Modern relationships are just like fast food. Quick to form and quick to be relished, and in case they don't seem right, you may just chuck them into the waste bin. Easy to form, easy to get rid of...in one word, "fickle". What is the reason for the rising divorce rates and the falling success rates of marriages? Contrary to what one would expect, love marriages seem to be in a worse state than arranged marriages. Are we becoming intolerant as a society? Is that why relationships fail so often? Or have we chucked the idea of commitment, giving preference to short term relationships?

Tina has been seeing Vivek for the last 3 years. You can imagine the shock she got when she found out that he was married. Her boyfriend is not only married, but has also fathered 2 children. Tina finds herself at crossroads now. She doesn't know whether she should dump him or pressurize him to dump his wife. The dilemma leaves her sad and depressed, amongst other things.

Ridhi broke up with her fiance Shashi 3 months ago. They dated for 4 years before finally getting engaged and shocked everyone when they called off the marriage. Their parents thought it was a lovers' tiff and all would be well again in a matter of days. But the break up was real. Two weeks later Ridhi met Ravi and they hit it off immediately. She has been dating Ravi since then, but Ridhi still misses Shashi. She knows she is not in love with Ravi, who can only be called her "good friend" at the best. But she is still dating him only because she doesn't want to be alone.

Pia Arora has been in an off and on relationship with Abir Mathur for the last 2 years. Last week they broke up once again, vowing to never get back together again. But Pia ia already missing her friend and wants to be friends with Abir. But Abir feels that becoming friends could again lead them back into the same quagmire of feelings and love-hate relationship. Do you think it is possible for Pia and Abir to ever be friends?

Can You Be Friends With An Ex-Lover?

It is the Big V Day today and everywhere there are couples holding hands, getting mushy, gifting each other red stuff (yuck!), and there you are - the quintessential singleton!

Valentine's Day is tough on singles...almost as tough as family weddings. With the media going in an overdrive of Cupid filled commercials and programs, a single person ends up feeling gloomier and lonelier than ever. As you sadly wonder if you are alone because you are not worthy enough, let Memsaab tell you why being alone is a blessing!

Samaira and Ranbir met at a party last year and it was love at first sight for them. Within a month, Ranbir moved in with Samaira and 6 months later they announced their engagement. Last week, Samaira was shocked to find out that Ranbir was involved with one of his colleagues at work. Samaira feels completely crushed and still keeps asking herself, "WHY"?

What Is Cheating

The institution of marriage is revered in India even today. Not to mention the big wedding industry that generates mega bucks for everyone associated with it. But the society has changed in many ways, and this takes a toll on marriages. Divorce rate in our country is going up every year. Amongst other things, jealousy and insecurity is said to be one of the main reasons behind our growing unhappiness in marital relationships.

What Makes You Jealous?